UPDATE

Hi everybody

Thanks so much for all your messages of support and good wishes, I really appreciate them. However at the moment I really don't have the energy to reply, nor to talk, so please for the time being send any messages through my sister's or father's emails and they will print them them out for me:

Annabel: annabel@annabelkapp.com
John: johnkapp@btinternet.com

I may be going into the local hospice tomorrow after another drain procedure to get a real rest, so this seems a good time solution, as this is always very exhausting. 

Thank you very much!